Heartbeat

When my heart stops beating will you notice.
When my mornings stop rising will it matter.
When my star falls will anyone notice.
As I look afar to see what's coming I see no future.
Life has come too a standstill for myself,
Yet no-one sees me.
As I draw my final breath dies anyone notice does anyone care?
I've lived a life unaccompanied by grandeur yet full of wonder,
I've asked myself what have I done for the world and still nothing worthwhile comes to mind.
Do I continue to live like I mean nothing.?
I feel as though I do not matter.
Life is a reflection in the mirror.
I've done nothing odd consequence.
I truly matter to no one when my day comes to an end I'll go quietly into the night.
There will be no great battle no fight I'll be naught but a feint memory.
Life is just a drop in the waterfall of the universe.

Love doesn't exist for me

No matter what I'll never achieve A love of my own i never stood a chance with clay it was doomed from the beginning nothing will ever work why because I'm a piece of shit and for this I'm going too end it no one should ever have to deal with me again I'm nothing I'm worthless my Sister Micaela i's right i deserve to die i should not be allowed to breathe the same air as any one else I'm worthless so this might very well be my lady blog entry so say goodbye all sorry to be a disappointment

Been Really Sick Lately

I don't know how to feel about this I am breaking off a relationship due to circumstances I am truly for the first time In my life utterly in love with someone that doesn't love me the same way it hurts I don't know how to feel I want to be with him and He wants somehow to be with me but because of My HIV he cant wrap his mind about it . I don't want to lose him as a person in my life but it looks like that is what is going to happen I cant fathom just being friends and I cant fathom being with anyone else so I am putting myself back on Paxil to help me deal sexually I don't want to be with anyone anymore its just the same fucking road blocks that i fall into I fell for him like i fall for many guys but the time we spent together was like being in heaven I just don't know how to deal emotionally with everything that I have to deal with I am so tired of this fucking virus its just making me so bitter I have been diagnosed for over 15 years and its just not fair that I have to always deal with it I wish I had never met Matt I wish I had never contracted HIV I wish I had never had to deal with this I feel like running to the rez and just giving in to my virus and letting go and saying goodbye HIV isn't going to be the thing that kills me its going to be my heart condition I spent about five hours in the ER the other day from having bronchitis I hate constantly getting sick I've been dealing with this since I was a little kid it sucks can someone please just take me away from here and take me to a better place from the hell that I live in everyday. I just want to be Happy with the person I love I just cant ever find the one person who can handle everything I have to deal with on a daily basis god only knows where My life is going to lead when its my time to go But for fucks sake I am so goddamn tired of dealing with it all. My life is never going to be easy I am never going to get past the stigma of this bullshit and I will never find happiness in a world that ostracizes me for something that just happened to me where do I go from here i think living alone and single and isolating is whats going to happen I think that taking me out of the equation will make every ones life a whole lot easier but I will never be happy alone or otherwise He thinks that i should try to be with someone else I just don't see myself trying anymore I am just done with relationships its too hard to deal with all the stigma and issues and the rumors and hatred especially from my own family I have tried for far too long to appease everyone in my life and I cant handle it anymore life isn't worth living or fighting for when there is no one there that is going to stand beside you and be there for you through thick and thin and i am not talking about a best friend I am talking about a lover the great love of my life which is something I want more than anything but it seems just out of reach so far out of reach that it is like roping the moon and the stars to make a world bright and loving and I just don't have it in me any longer to continue with trying to be with anyone its just far too much for me although he wants to remain friends and he truly loves me I cant see myself putting through myself through any of this any longer its far too much for my broken heart to handle I love him he loves me just we cant seem to be together and well he is all I want and I am not what he wants friends isn't enough for me and I know I will never be satisfied being just a friend I am always just a friend My heart cant handle it any more ....

Well Still Unable to blog without My sister still stalking My Blog I still have to sit and wait till she litterally stops reading My posts nothing I say or do is worth anything because she invalidates anything I do or say I am sick and tired of all this backstabbing hatefullness I wish her tot just leave me the hell alone but she wont get it through head I have nothing left for her I am drained and I am sick and tired I went through a year of hell getting chemo and the like but I am lying and I not sick and have not had HIV and do not have HIV according to her I am Blogging for the attention I am also Not doing anything for my country or my people why because I have not and my family have not paid her expoectant ways Oh well such is Life stop reading my blog Im not Lying about anything and I am tired of you defaming My name stop reading My blog and trying to invalidate anything and everything I have to say I have gone to I dotn know how many schools and talked to I dont know how many students about the dangers of this virus and other health issues it can cause and or exacerbate but I am the one who is uneducated you talk a big talk but You dont walk the walk leave me alone this is the last time if you continue on this course of actionI will get a legal order to have your blogs removed from blogger anything with My name or my parents names leave us all alone since you hate us so damn much leave us in peace peace be unto you and your family because its no longer a part of ours

This is how I've seen some people for so long

You treat me as though I'm insignificant you treat me like garbage you smile to my face and turn around and call me names treat me like I'm nothing you act like you're the shit yet you do nothing you don't even pay you're own way you're unappreiciative and blatantly hateful towards me you do nothing for anyone but yourself everything you do for anyone else had conditions you take over everything and don't give a shit about anyone elses things and you turn it all around and manipulate everything for you're benefit and make me out to be the bad guy yet you treat me with utter disdain and disregard of you hate me so much why do i bother because of ugly and Everyone else I'm ready to literally kill myself you all expect so much and take never giving of you're self only draining everything from everyone you use everyone for you're own gain and you hate everything anyone else does you dint appreciate anything period but I'm the fake I'm the hater I'll never forget the words you threw at me because you're utter hatred destroyed me inside but I'm the evil son of a bitch fine I'd rather you disown me and treat me as though I'm dead because I'll never be shit to you I'll never be anything in you're eyes so much do it's rather die...thank you for showing me how much you truly care..thank you for breaking me down.

Five Day's After My Birthday

  So back In April I almost died it wasn't expected for me to live till My Birthday. Well My Birthday came and went I am alive I am well i am stronger then when I had My Incident.It has been a long hard road to recovery my health has been very up and down its so hard to get through some days but i do it. I still have a person in my life that makes my life Hard why I have not been blogging every single time I write something she goes off and writes hers and quotes me literally word for word and then calls me a Liar. Well I have contemplated shutting this blog down but Ive helped so many people come to terms with their status and shown you can live with this virus but being virtually harassed and stalked has been enough to make me not want to.
  I love my family even the estranged stalker sister of mine but I have to say enough is enough cyber bullying is still bullying you can not like what I have to say that's fine but to lie and say I am not HIV positive and i claim to be positive only for notoriety and then say Ive got aids all in the same sentence and then say your going to school to be a nurse and not know the difference between HIV and AIDS is simply ridiculous and then to say I'm dying of AIDS yeah enough is enough If I am dying I am dying from my fucked up heart to not be able to differentiate HIV from AIDS and to say someone is dying of AIDS while claiming to be in school for nursing #1 Shows You are a Liar and #2 if your in school for nursing its definitely not the place for you. #1 no one Dies from AIDS what you Die from is an opportunistic infection because of your weekend immune system #2 if you don't know that you should not be in the medical field period If you are going to be in the medical field you should be educated on all disease viruses and anything communicable as well to be honest you will be surrounded by it all day. yes Ive got a suppressed immune system because Ive got 3 auto immune disorders as well as this Immune virus so yeah I've got issues but to have an uneducated person to try to air my information out here with out even being a part of my life and not even having the story straight its some what upsetting and it puts off me from writing which does help so many so congratulations for doing that you have obviously gotten what you want your still hurting others by hurting me I hope your so happy do you know that each person that doesn't go get tested might be one that could have used a word or two of advise you know that someone who got diagnosed today may have run across my blog and might have used a condom because I suggested it you do not realize the trickle down effects you have when I am too scared to write because of your badgering your hurting people all day everyday with your hate and pettiness its got to be said I said i wouldn't talk about you any more well you've accomplished that your so powerful I hope your fucking happy with yourself because you made it so hard for me to write with your hateful ness stop talking about me don't mention me don't think about me act as if I'm dead because you have hurt me so much you've hurt my sisters and in your mind its fun because your truth Your FUCKING TRUTH IS A FANTASY ITS IN YOUR HEAD AND YOUR SICK LEAVE US ALONE .
LEAVE ME ALONE..
 As for the rest your welcome to my blog I will try to write more I will try to be better and be here longer but with a cyber stalker its hard I only want to help people that's why I do this the only reason I do this is to help others .Yet some folks well one person in particular says I am claiming to be positive for fame if I wanted fame I would be an actor not an HIV education activist.
  Now that rant out I'm here I am healthy I am alive whether or not I'm really wanted I know I am still needed and that's all that matters. As long as i am needed Ill be here.
 And to close this remember if you play with it wrap it no glove no love its your choice to live safely travel safe be well and when you make love use a condom remember if you love someone you use a condom you don't treat them like a used condom....